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Gender Segregated Bathrooms

  
            I was unable to present my institutional artifact project in class so I made a PowerPoint with a vocal recording, on each slide, of me talking through my presentation. I am very passionate about this topic so I decided to put this project on my blog so I can share it with other people. I also wrote a shortened script below that goes along with the PowerPoint just in case the PowerPoint or audio doesn’t work.

Enjoy!





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For my institutional artifact project I looked at the symbols, history, and ideologies behind gender segregated bathrooms. I did this through a critical and gender perspective analyzing the privilege and oppression of gender segregation, how it’s maintained, and why it exists in the first place. 
            For gender nonconforming individuals, just walking through the door of a public restroom can be stressful. Everyone should have the right to use a restroom without fear of discrimination. Unisex restrooms are no more dangerous than gender segregated bathrooms nor do they exclude any one person based on their identity or appearance.

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So this is my claim: 
            These symbols, the facilities and ideologies they represent, and the institutions that uphold and continue to use them, force individuals to choose and assign themselves with hegemonic definitions of gender. In other words, when institutions such as schools (like Minnesota State University Mankato), businesses, restaurants, shopping malls etc, choose to separate restrooms based on outdated notions of gender, it forces Queer individuals, like myself, to conform to these notions whether we assign ourselves as such or not. Basically, if we have to pee, we have to decide to be either a man or a woman before doing so. We are constantly reminded by these symbols that we are different, or “not normal.”
            By only having two gendered bathrooms, institutions are suppressing and restricting opportunities and access within everyday life for genders that live outside the norm. Just some of these gender identities include: agender, androgynous individuals, bigenders, demigenders, gender fluids, gender queers, gender neutrals, pangenders and many more.  With all these gender identities finally being recognized and talked about today, they are still considered to be different and outside the societal norm.
          
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            Now I’m not saying that queer individuals are the only ones who struggle with gender, people within the norm have struggles as well. These traditional gender stereotypes listed above are just some of the outdated notions of gender that are culturally programed into us since birth. Meaning we lean gender from our culture, aka the (cultural theory of learning gender). We are taught through our culture, (our families, our schools, the media etc.), from a very young age that men are dominant and women are submissive, women are gentle and men are tough, men are logical and women are emotional, and so on and so forth.
            As we all know today these gender stereotypes, regardless if they are actually true or not, are still common assumptions accepted today within our culture, and Gender segregated bathrooms play a big role in why this keeps happening.

 “The public restroom is the last everyday social institution remaining in which separation by gender is considered to be the norm, (Gerson, 2016)”. 
            The institutions that continue to use these symbols, continue and reinforce, whether they are aware of it or not, the outdated ideologies that put these symbols to use in the first place. The standards, or popular notions, of gender are the main, if not the only reason in creating and maintaining sex segregated bathrooms.
            When the ideology of separate circles for men and women, in public and private, in the workforce, and in the home were dominant assumptions in society, the growth of women’s presence in public life led to the desire to protect women from the crude dangers of the patriarchal world. Patriarchal meaning the enforced belief in male dominance and control within a society, (Pharr, 2001). An 1873 Supreme Court case, Bradwell v. Illinois which found it was NOT unconstitutional for the state to deny a woman’s admittance to the state bar on the basis of their sex, had a famous likeminded opinion which stated…
             “Man is, or should be, woman's protector and defender. The natural and proper timidity and delicacy which belongs to the female sex evidently unfits it for many of the occupations of civil life.” 
            This separate circle paternalism led to the designation of certain physical spaces for women apart from those for men, including bathrooms in public venues. In other words, these were safe spaces for women, tucked in a world in which women were vulnerable.
            So what would I do to change all this? Well I would continue to fight for gender neutral bathrooms, with the hope that one day all bathrooms will be gender neutral. I also think we should change the conversation around this issue. People need to know gender segregated bathrooms affect every one of us. They uphold outdated gender norms, they suppress identities, restrict certain individual’s access, and much more. Overall let’s keep this conversation, movement for gender equality, and fight for change, moving forward.

Gersen, J. S. (2016, January 25). Who’s Afraid of Gender-Neutral Bathrooms? Retrieved from            http://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/whos-afraid-of-same-sex-bathrooms

Griffin, E., Ledbetter, A. M., & Sparks, G. G. (2015). A first look at communication theory (9th    ed.). New York, NY: McGraw-Hill.

Pharr, S. (2001). Homophobia as a Weapon of Sexism. In Race, Class, and Gender in the United States (5th ed., pp. 143-152). New York: Worth.

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