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Gender Queer






Published on Jan 8, 2014

Dia Davina came in 1st place with a score of 57.0 on January 6th at the Vancouver Poetry Slam. This is Dia's poem In Between
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxzAhWC4giI

This is one of my favorite slam poems. Hopefully the video I attached will work, but if not I posted the link above or you can just go to YouTube and type in Dia Davina-In Between. So lately I’ve had a lot of people ask me, in this class and outside of it, what it means to be gender queer. Truth is, it is different for everyone and it’s not always easy to explain. It is who I am and how I feel. Some day’s I’m masculine some days I’m feminine, I’m not really sure how it works. It’s like I’m a boy in a girl’s body sometimes and other times I’ll be the girliest girl you’ve ever met. Anyway, the video above is Dia Davina performing her poem In Between, and it has been my favorite poem for a while now. I can really connect and relate to her experiences, thoughts, and feelings about being gender queer, or being in between genders, and loving yourself for it. I hope it gives you a little insight into her life, mine, and what it’s like to be gender queer.
 Enjoy! 

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